{"product_id":"liking-the-child-you-love-build-a-better-relationship-with-your-kids-even-when-theyre-driving-you-crazy-paperback","title":"Liking the Child You Love: Build a Better Relationship with Your Kids -- Even When They're Driving You Crazy - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eJeffrey Bernstein\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"I shouldn't have to tell him that again!\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"She is just so spoiled.\" \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"They don't appreciate anything I do for them.\" \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e Do you feel like you're at the end of your rope? Are you exhausted by your kids arguing over every little thing? Finally there's a name for your feelings: \"Parent Frustration Syndrome\" (PFS). No kid is perfect, but parents often don't realize just how much their own thoughts, rather than their children's behavior, contribute to being emotionally overwhelmed and discouraged. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e In \u003ci\u003eLiking the Child You Love\u003c\/i\u003e, Renowned psychologist Dr. Jeffrey Bernstein offers proven strategies for taming the 9 most common toxic thought patterns that stop us from parenting effectively: \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe \"Always or Never\" Trap\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLabel Gluing\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSeething Sarcasm\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSmoldering Suspicions\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDetrimental Denial\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEmotional Overheating\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBlame Blasting\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\"Should\" Slamming\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDooming Conclusions\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e As you identify and put a stop to PFS's negative thought patterns, you'll be amazed at how your kids' defiant behavior quickly improves, without having to raise your voice or dole out harsh punishments. Soon you will have a closer, calmer, and more loving relationship with your kids -- just by changing your own mindset.\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eJeffrey Bernstein, PhD, \u003c\/b\u003e is a licensed psychologist specializing in child and family therapy who has helped more than two thousand defiant children and their families restore their relationships. A well known relationship expert and the author of \u003ci\u003eWhy Can't You Read My Mind?\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003e10 Days to a Less Distracted Child\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eLiking the Child You Love\u003c\/i\u003e, Dr. Bernstein has appeared on the \u003ci\u003eToday Show\u003c\/i\u003e and Court TV, among other venues. Dr. Bernstein lives in the Philadelphia area. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003edrjeffonline.com\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 272\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.8 x 8.1 x 5.4 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eIllustrated:\u003c\/strong\u003e Yes\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 09, 2009\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47452049866930,"sku":"9780738212616","price":19.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0770\/3891\/1666\/files\/35a1673c6ec9688ce84c97e9a1009f02.webp?v=1778807122","url":"https:\/\/box.dadyminds.org\/products\/liking-the-child-you-love-build-a-better-relationship-with-your-kids-even-when-theyre-driving-you-crazy-paperback","provider":"DADYMINDS BOX","version":"1.0","type":"link"}