{"product_id":"on-our-best-behavior-the-price-women-pay-to-be-good-paperback","title":"On Our Best Behavior: The Price Women Pay to Be Good - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eElise Loehnen\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNEW YORK TIMES \u003c\/i\u003eBESTSELLER - A groundbreaking exploration of the ancient rules women unwittingly follow in order to be considered \"good,\" revealing how the Seven Deadly Sins still control and distort our lives and illuminating a path toward a more balanced, spiritually complete way to live\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ci\u003eWhy do women equate self-denial with being good? \u003c\/i\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eWe congratulate ourselves when we resist the donut in the office breakroom. We celebrate our restraint when we hold back from sending an email in anger. We feel virtuous when we wake up at dawn to get a jump on the day. We put others' needs ahead of our own and believe this makes us exemplary. In \u003ci\u003eOn Our Best Behavior\u003c\/i\u003e, journalist Elise Loehnen explains that these impulses--often lauded as unselfish, distinctly feminine instincts--are actually ingrained in us by a culture that reaps the benefits, via an extraordinarily effective collection of mores known as the Seven Deadly Sins. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eSince being codified by the Christian church in the fourth century, the Seven Deadly Sins--pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath, and sloth--have exerted insidious power. Even today, in our largely secular, patriarchal society, they continue to circumscribe women's behavior. For example, seeing sloth as sinful leads women to deny themselves rest; a fear of gluttony drives them to ignore their appetites; and an aversion to greed prevents them from negotiating for themselves and contributes to the 55 percent gender wealth gap. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eOn Our Best Behavior, \u003c\/i\u003e Loehnen reveals how we've been programmed to obey the rules represented by these sins and how doing so qualifies us as \"good.\" This probing analysis of contemporary culture and thoroughly researched history explains how women have internalized the patriarchy, and how they unwittingly reinforce it. By sharing her own story and the spiritual wisdom of other traditions, Loehnen shows how we can break free and discover the integrity and wholeness we seek.\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eElise Loehnen\u003c\/b\u003e is the host of \u003ci\u003ePulling the Thread\u003c\/i\u003e. She has co-written twelve books, five of which were \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestsellers. She was the chief content officer of goop, and she co-hosted \u003ci\u003eThe goop Podcast\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe goop Lab\u003c\/i\u003e on Netflix. Previously, she was the editorial projects director of \u003ci\u003eCondé Nast Traveler\u003c\/i\u003e. Elise lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two sons.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 400\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.9 x 8.2 x 5.5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e August 26, 2025\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47368155168946,"sku":"9780593243053","price":27.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0770\/3891\/1666\/files\/7Biwl1g8fa9780593243053.webp?v=1777575961","url":"https:\/\/box.dadyminds.org\/products\/on-our-best-behavior-the-price-women-pay-to-be-good-paperback","provider":"DADYMINDS BOX","version":"1.0","type":"link"}