Judge Your Mother: Question what you think and turn your life around - Paperback

by Nurit Asnash (Author)

This book was republished under a new title. Please check out "Your Dream Mother", the new edition.
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Have you ever had thoughts like: "My mother is the worst", "She doesn't understand me", "She loves my brother/sister more than she loves me", "She should support me", "I need her to listen to me", "I want her to call me", "She ruined my life", "She is selfish, a narcissist, a gaslighter"?

The list of complaints goes on and on. Each time you have a judgmental thought about your mother it means you wish she was different, and you argue with reality. That's an opportunity to have something good come out of it, like your happiness and freedom. How does it work? We do The Work and take these judgments to Inquiry.
Inspired by qualitative research methods, in this book you will find 19 dialogues by people practicing The Work of Byron Katie. From casual, daily interactions to scenes of violence that span from childhood to adulthood, they will give you eye-opening insights. Put together, these dialogues create a journey of self-discovery into who we are without and beyond our story and identity created around our mother. Reading these Inquiries, you'll get a deep understanding about the dynamics played between mother and child in:

• Siblings' rivalry
• Mother-father-child love triangle
• Role switching, parental children
• The dependence on mother's love, approval and appreciation
• Illness, death, and more

Although the focus here is Mother, these insights are applicable to other relationships you have, like father, brother, sister, spouse/partner, children, boss, and others. Through the practice of The Work's simple Inquiry process, you gain access your inner truth and reclaim your happiness and freedom. With Inquiry you can discover, who would you be without your story of your mother? What would your life look like?

The magic and brilliance of The Work of Byron Katie lies in its simplicity - it's only four questions and turnarounds. Anyone can do it.
Roll up your sleeves and let's get to Work!

Praise for "Judge Your Mother"
"We move in the world with criticism, guilt, anger and confusion. Inquiry is helping us to dismantle and free ourselves but at the base, we will always find the mother. No matter what. How brave you are, Nurit, to look straight at the root. Bravo."

"Highly recommended - an excellent book for those who want to go deeper in The Work."

"This is a great book. It gives insights on facilitating and reading other people's Work helps you in your own work on relationship with your mother."

"Nurit Asnash gives valuable information and comments on doing The Work. I think the book is a great complement to other literature on The Work."

"I am enjoying reading it. Read about the Turnaround to the role today. This is new for me and I can see how this is supportive and can help me learn more about myself. I'm glad you wrote it. Good work."